Thomas Harman

November 13, 1960 ~ May 8, 2025
Born in:
San Jose, California
Resided in:
Nashville, Tennessee
Thomas “Tom” Harman, a beloved husband, father, son, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away peacefully on May 8, 2025, at the age of 64 in Nashville, TN. Tom, born in San Jose, CA, was the loving husband of Reiko for 25 years. A systems engineer by trade, Tom was known for his kindness, sense of humor, and his passion for beer – especially home brewing. He was also a lifelong fan of the Oakland Raiders. He is survived by his wife Reiko, his daughter Kyoko, and his sisters Susan and Laura.
Details of a memorial service will be announced at a later date.
Hey kid,
I can’t tell you how much I miss you already. Your pranks and instant puns will forever by my fondest memories of the times we spent together. Filling Mom’s sweater pockets with creamer pods at a restaurant — then pulling them out just as we’re ready to pay and leave — an instant classic. “Mom, how many times have I told you that you can’t take these home?” You got the laugh you deserved, so you switched to silverware the next time. Another family classic. Rest in peace dear brother. Love always, Older Sis Susan
Hymie, Hymster, Hymel the Desert Skunk,
We met in Jr. High and have so many memories over the years. Here’s a few: pumpkin pie and Elton John records, youth soccer, Jay Kronenberg, “he’s dead”, Pink Floyd, Springsteen, The Clash, for the love of God you discovered Queen, Winchester Drive In, Mac & Vargas, midnight movies, bass guitar, all the crappy bands I was in, “get out of here”. You were a groomsman in my wedding for crying out loud.
I’ll miss you.
Little Hef